1st Trimester

Mother’s Day & a Wild Birth Story

Tuesday, April 24th, 2012

Mother’s Day is just around the corner!
We are inviting you to get your CELEBRATION ON with us! Read below for details:)

Your Baby Booty has partnered up with Joyful Motherhood (a Malawan non-profit) under the umbrella of African Mother’s Health Initiatives.

Why? You Ask.

Because….We stand behind the incredible work they are doing to help mamas and babies in Malawi, one of the poorest countries in Africa.

In honor of Mother’s Day, we’re raising $2,000 smackers on behalf of Joyful Motherhood. That’s a good chunk of change. Moms across the ocean, who have little babies, just like us, (and orphaned babies too) need some help. Over the next few weeks, we will be sharing glimpses of the work Joyful Motherhood does in Malawi.
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You Won’t Believe This Birth Story

One mama in Malawi was pregnant. Her labor started, she lived near the main road leading to the hospital but couldn’t afford the $1.00 bus fare to get there.

She went to her neighbors to trade a piece of cloth she owned for $1.00 so she could get to the hospital.

No one took her up on her offer.

She started walking. The hospital was 6 miles away.

She was in labor.

She felt birth was close, so she walked towards some women working in a field.

They helped deliver her triplets on a piece of plastic on the ground. On the side the road.

Can you imagine?

All because she didn’t have $1.00 to take a bus to the hospital.

The Good News?

After several hours of sitting under a tree with her three new babies, someone gave her a ride to the hospital. It was there that Joyful Motherhood found out about her and stepped in to help her.

They provided her with breastfeeding support and supplemental formula. They did follow up care (at her house in the village) to make sure her babies were growing. They taught her and her community members how to wear her three babies (kangaroo care), to improve their chance for survival. They came to her village and taught her (and her community) the importance of good sanitation, mosquito nets and getting vaccinations. If necessary they provided medicine and extra food for the family.

Joyful Motherhood was there.

If you feel compelled, please donate (click here) & spread the word (share this email!). These mamas thank you from the bottom of their hearts…and so do we!

Holistic Health Options

Monday, January 16th, 2012

I interviewed a midwife, Pat Burkhardt,  the other day, mama of two kiddos, Ph.D. in Public Health and midwife for 45+ years. She answered some of your Holistic Health questions from Facebook and I recap them for you here in this short video.

Interviews with amazing experts such as Pat Burkhardt is just the tip of the iceberg for our new project launching in the next couple months.  If you want to be among the FIRST to know when we’re live, put your email below.

My Wife Wants a Midwife.

Monday, January 9th, 2012

We’re starting a new series of posts called “Thoughts from a husband about pregnancy & childbirth.” Steve, a.k.a. “Mr. Baby Booty” will be sharing various thoughts and info along his journey to the fatherland. 

by Steve Blight C0-Founder Your Baby Booty

Foolish. Short-sighted. Stupid. And straight-up Negligent. For so many reasons.

Having sired a beating heart in my wife’s fertile loins, she now wants to deliver this baby without a doctor? WTH. What is she thinking? Is she serious or is it another crazy emotional tangent she’s running down?

I don’t get it.

It’s not easy getting pregnant. We haven’t struggled, but we’ve had many friends who have. It’s a freaking’ miracle all that has to happen to get pregnant, to grow a baby and to birth a baby. During go time, she wants to run the offense without the quarterback (like Tom Brady) we need running the show?

I really don’t get it.

What I do get is that my wife is smart. She’s wicked smart. She says she wants a midwife instead of an OB/GYN. Didn’t most midwives live in the 1800’s, wear long dresses and run around delivering babies village-to-village with sweaty rosey cheeks? I know midwives still exist in Europe and other cultures, but why a midwife when we can have a real doctor? Did I mention, I don’t get it.

What if something goes wrong? What if the baby needs help, what can a midwife do? What if the baby turns around in the womb and can’t get out, what can a midwife do? What if Sarah needs help, what is a midwife gonna be able to do? A midwife is just some woman who delivers lots of babies, they aren’t trained to handle medical needs like doctors right? Why does she want a midwife over an OB?

I need to find out.

I need to do some research.

As the dad-to-be, don’t think I’m comfortable using a midwife. This is our decision, not her decision for our family. This decision affects everyone.  I am always open to learning more, but I just don’t get this one??

Anyone with experience on this have thoughts?  Please share. If you don’t but know someone who does, please ask them to share.

I need to learn why anyone would want to use a midwife over an OB. Thanks- Steve

When Pregnant: 10 Weeks

Monday, December 19th, 2011

by Sarah Blight Author of Going to the MotherLand and Founder of Your Baby Booty

 

When Pregnant: 10 Weeks

No. You read it right. Week 10. That’s what happens when you can’t count. You think you’re week 9 but then midwife with her handy dandy due date calculating app tells you you’re a week off. That’s kinda like thinking it’s Wednesday all day but it’s really FRIDAY! Score!

I’ll take it.

Speaking of awesome midwife. I had my first appointment with her this week. It last 1.5 hours. Yes. You read that right. 90 minutes. I never felt rushed or shooed out the door- even though she was awake all night delivering a baby. She kept telling me that she had all the time in the world- even though I know that a rock star midwife of a woman like her is super busy.

What did we chat about? My previous pregnancy, labor, delivery. Then she just asked me life questions- about my toddler (who was extremely obnoxious and wanting my attention. Every. Second. During. The. 90. Minutes) about my husband, our business, BIRTH.

Then she sat down and went through every paper in my medical records (that I had requested from my old Doc in Texas). I was actually a tad embarrassed because she had questions about some of the tests that were done and honestly, I couldn’t remember a thing about them. Why I had them or what the doctor was looking for. No clue. Er um, THAT’s mildly embarrassing.

But then again, I have pregnant brain (thank you!) and it WAS over 2 years ago and lets face it, when you get blood work done, you’re not always sure what they’re looking for and they’re not always so great at telling you.  But still. I felt bad. Like I needed to explain the blank look on my face when she said “how about those elevated platelet levels?” Elevated-whaaa?

Yeah.

The one aspect of the appointment I loved is that she expected me to have questions- she didn’t ask me if I had questions- she told me to tell her my questions.  I like that.

I had two main questions  1.) Shooting pains that feel like hot knives going straight up me, between my hoohaaa and Uranus. What the Eff is that? Response: She was thinking nerves…and I think she’s right.

2.) Was super duper queasy (see this) and then for past 5 days (ironically starting the day hubby left to go out of town for 10 days) I felt like a rock star…was the baby okay? Was everything okay?

Response: every pregnancy is different, nausea lasts for varying amounts of time, it’s pretty normal, doesn’t necessarily mean anything is wrong, if I am super worried we can get blood work done so I can enjoy my pregnancy and not be a nervous, stressed-out wreck.

I passed on the blood test and decided to trust God instead. In due time, all will be revealed.  I can’t lie though, I was hoping to hear that baby’s heartbeat, but all we heard on the doppler were my intestines digesting my breakfast (yum!) and one of my main arteries near my uterus (cool!). No baby action …yet.

When Pregnant: 8 Weeks

Friday, December 16th, 2011

by Sarah Blight author of “Going to the MotherLand” and Founder of Your Baby Booty

When Pregnant: 8 Weeks

Nauseous, Queasy, Woozy, Bilious, Unwell, Sick, Pregnant.

This has kicked up a few notches in the past week. I have a whole new appreciation for the women all over the face of the earth who endure this, their entire pregnancy.

When trying to describe these strange sensations to my husband, the only true thing I can say is that it’s like being hung over- all I crave is grease and general nastiness- to settle the stomach and please the hormone wracked palate.

Back to the naush. I won’t lie. It’s tempting to stay in my sweatpants all day, not shower, and turn into a greaseball who moonlights as a couch potato who feels sorry for herself, but I’ve got a toddler who needs and wants my attention, life that has to be lived and oh yeah – work to do. Life keeps going no matter how many times a day I gag from smells emanating from the refrigerator when I open it, or simply think about things like the cheeseburger I HAD TO HAVE on the way home from the midwife last week (yes, I used to be and kind of still am a vegetarian who occasionally eats meatballs and cheeseburgers).  Sue me.

I usually give myself a “buck up solider” pep talk which goes something like this:

                “Think about the women in sub-Saharan Africa who strap their children on their backs, carry loads of water on their heads AND have to deal with morning sickness when they get pregnant. Buck up you sissy and get over it…at least you have a bed to sleep on.”

Or

“Think about your new friend who has hypermesis and has to either be hospitalized during pregnancy or be on super powerful tranquilizers so she can just function- and she has two kids already. Deal with it.”

Or

“This won’t last forever.”

The fact that I pretty much felt like a rockstar with my first pregnancy has made adjusting to this “new normal” a bit more difficult. I keep in mind that this is “normal” and a good sign-My body is being flooded with hormones due to this little person invading my body. It’s good. It’s good. It’s good.

…then I GAG.

 

Advent: trying not to screw this up

Friday, December 9th, 2011

By Elizabeth Lyons, author, blogger, jewelry maker and all around superwoman.

 

Advent: trying not to screw this up

Most Advent calendars have a cute little window you can open each day. When I was growing up, opening this window revealed a picture. It was super exciting.

But nowadays, all the kids know that an Advent calendar isn’t cool unless each window reveals a piece of chocolate. Or an iPad2.

Two of my kids can’t have chocolate, and even if they could, dividing it between all 5 of them would be asinine (not that I’m above asinine. I’m not), I had to come up with an alternative. Which I did. 3 years ago.

I strung 24 envelopes, each for one day in December, from the mantle. We alternated who got to open one each day, and each announced a surprise activity. The kids would learn that we were going to get our Christmas tree that day, or fill boxes for Operation Christmas Child, or clean the leaves out of our neighbor’s front yard, or play a new game hidden somewhere in the house that they had to find by solving a series of riddles.

It was awesome.

And by awesome, I mean completely and utterly exhausting.

To proactively take responsibility for my 3% of the problem, I did make one critical error of note: in my haste to come up with 24 cool things to do, I forgot to do two things: 1) write them down for my personal reference and 2) consider the day of the week on which each activity fell.

The Wednesday that I woke up having slept for about 7 minutes the night before, and the kids opened the envelope to reveal that we were going bowling that night? Yeah. I almost killed myself.

Or the day the card said, “Look under the thing you constantly clog with toothpaste to find a new game,” and I was like, “OH MY GOD I DIDN’T PUT THE GAME UNDER THE SINK. ALSO, I FORGOT TO BUY THE GAME!” Yeah. That didn’t go well either.

So this year, after I was, in effect, told that Christmas isn’t Christmas without Mom’s Advent Calendar of Giving and Receiving, I reluctantly went to JoAnn’s and bought this:

Because I know that the kids will peek, I put only the current and next day’s cards in their respective pockets. This approach also allows me to strategically decide what makes sense to do on a given day, and prevents the aforementioned bowling debacle.

Tonight’s card says, “Go buy Mom a new car.”

 

Any Christmas/holiday traditions you want to start with your family?
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Elizabeth Lyons is the author of 3 best-selling parenting books, most recently You Cannot Be Serious: and 32 Other Rules that Sustain a (Mostly) Balanced Mom. You can visit her website at www.ElizabethLyons.com.

When Pregnant: 7 Weeks

Monday, December 5th, 2011

When Pregnant: 7 Weeks

We had our first date with a potential midwife today and I am so pleased to report that the date was a dream. One hour of asking questions (we used this awesome question asking guide to help us-scroll to the bottom right hand side), getting answers, finding out about each other, sharing a couple drinks—ya know, a typical first date. Both Steve and I knew after this date that she was THE ONE to help us bring our little person into the world. When you feel undeniably excited and so confident in the person, then you’re on the right track- even the 1 hour drive each way hasn’t tempered our enthusiasm.

We emailed her to let her know and you know what?  She was JUST as excited as we were that she was the one! And she asked that we please bring our 2 year old to the appointments from here on out. What?  Yes.  I know! So that doubled our excitement and we’re just full of shits and giggles around here about the whole shabbang.

Since it’s still pretty early, I won’t have my first appointment with her for another couple weeks. I will be sure to give the lowdown on how that all unfolds.

Speaking of unfolding- this feeling of being hung over is making me gag like 24/7. What is up? The thought of almost anything that I’m not craving at the present moment makes me start gagging- thank God so far there’s no actual VOM, but still. I hate the feeling that I could up-chuck at any given moment given the right food combo or smell in the air. Thank God my husband is a rock star in the kitchen- but he goes out of town for 10 days at a time and then me, my toddler and my gag reflexes are on our own. Womp womp womp.

Anyone else in the queasy, vomit camp with me?

 

 

When Pregnant: 6 Weeks

Wednesday, November 30th, 2011

 

 

by Sarah Blight, founder of Your Baby Booty and author of Going to the MotherLand

When Pregnant: 6 Weeks

 

Now might be a good time to talk about the fact that up until …oh yesterday… I had been a vegetarian for almost 3 years. Okay, pescatarian, I ate fish.

Then I got pregnant and then I started craving meat like it was going out of style.

As you know, when you’re pregnant and those crazy hormones are coursing through your veins, it renders you powerless to the forces of DESIRE that invade your being. So yesterday I HAD TO HAVE spaghetti and meatballs! Like. NOW!

Thankfully it was my niece’s 10th birthday and the birthday gods made sure the planets aligned in my favor- my niece requested Olive Garden for her birthday meal (much to the chagrin of her parents). All I can say is VICTORY. I had my spaghetti and ate my meatballs too. I was pretty much over the moon happy with the whole shabang. If you want to make a pregnant woman happy, give her what she craves. Friends for life.

 

If you’re wondering if I have any regrets about jumping off the vegetarian train my answer is a resounding Hells to the No. I definitely think that a food craving is our body’s way of telling us what we need to eat and if baby wants meatballs right now, then baby will have meatballs. I don’t necessarily think that I will be eating meatballs for every meal, but who knows. I’m just a passenger on this food craving train.

*update* meat of any kind right now makes me queasy. This craving was apparently akin to the high speed “Bullet” train- Here and gone before you can say “hormones.”

 

 

 

 

When Pregnant: 5 Weeks part deux

Monday, November 21st, 2011

by Sarah Blight author of Going to the MotherLand and Founder of Your Baby Booty

When Pregnant: 5 weeks part deux

A couple years ago I went back to Minneapolis, Minnesota to visit family. While I was there, I borrowed my aunt’s car and toodled around my old neighborhood. Since I was in kindergarten when we moved from Minneapolis, things are a little hazy for me. Nevertheless, when I did finally pull into our hood and see my old house I was like “Yep. This is exactly how I remember it.”  The apple tree still in the backyard- though slightly bigger, the playhouse still intact – though slightly smaller, and the pond still where it used to be. There was something oddly comforting about looking around and seeing that all was mostly, as I remembered it.

Now that I’m embarking on pregnancy numero dos, I feel the same way. Yep… here we are, it’s pretty much exactly as I remembered it. Insomnia? Check. Strange ass dreams? Check. Feeling like I’m wearing a lead-suit? Check. Food cravings…already?? Check.

Maybe it’s just that I know now what’s coming down the road, but it seems like everything is happening earlier this time around, like my body is also remembering “oh yeah, I’ve been here before.” So we’re off, like a herd of turtles (as my grandpa would say).

I will say that the Breyers Snickers Ice Cream sitting in my freezer right now, along with the caffeine free diet coke to go with it, are fabulous companions on this hormone laden journey.

Can I do THIS while pregnant?

Friday, November 18th, 2011

 

Can I do THIS while pregnant?

So you’ve just found out you’re pregs and the hormones are coursing through your veins like it’s in the Indy 500. You sit down to eat your favorite deli sandwich when your friend, mama of 6 kids gives you a strange looks and says “you’re not really going to eat that when you’re pregnant are you?”  You panic. “What? This is news to me!” You frantically start looking stuff up on the internet but it’s not so easy to find. Then you start wondering what else you’re “not supposed to do when pregnant.” Well mamas, we’ve put together a list of items that are commonly brought to a preggo mama’s attention, by friends, family and strangers alike- but we tell you the whole scoop- so you can make your own, very educated decision before you stuff your face with a plate full of sushi

1.       Can I Eat lunch meat and soft cheese while pregnant?

Here’s the skinny on lunch meat and soft cheeses…it’s comes down to Listeria, a really gnarly bacteria that can contaminate foods. Listeria is found in water and soil- with some animals becoming carriers.  The lowdown is that it can be found in veggies and uncooked meats and unpasteurized cheeses. Because there is a chance that contamination can occur after packaging, there is a chance that hot dogs and deli meats can contain it. Are you gagging yet?  According to the Center for Disease control, preggos are more susceptible to becoming infected than non-preggos (mostly because preggo’s immune systems are suppressed during pregnancy).

If you do get sick with Listeria-

You’ll have mild flu like symptoms

You’re at an increased risk for miscarriage, premature labor, or infecting your newborn baby.

You’ll probably be put on antibiotics to nip it in the bud.

Bottom Line-

The American Pregnancy Association recommends pregnant women stay away from lunch meat unless you are reheating it yourself (to kill those buggers) or eating it in a casserole or some other concoction that’s been in the oven. Restaurants like Subway have pregger alternatives like Meatball Subs or Roasted Chicken sandwiches.

As far as soft cheeses are concerned. Check the packaging- most, if not all soft cheeses in the U.S. are pasteurized which means you should be a-okay. But again, eating hard cheese is always a good option as well.

2.       Can I drink caffeine and/or wine while pregnant?

Most newly pregnant women drink one or both of the above and may feel that it’s cruel to be cut off from them simultaneously. Preggos, do not lose heart.

The research is actually very conflicting in regards to consuming caffeine while pregnant. The March of Dimes, a non-profit that researches the problems that babies encounter, recommends that you consume no more than 200 mg of caffeine per day while pregnant, that’s basically a 12 oz cup of coffee. That doesn’t sound soooo bad.

One thing to keep in mind is that caffeine is found in lots of stuff other than coffee- caffeine is also found in tea, chocolate, some over the counter medications, some plants even produce caffeine naturally.

How about beer or wine?

There are studies out there that show that moms who drank as little as one glass of wine a week while preggers, gave birth to children who were smaller, leaner and had a smaller head circumference (smaller brain) than those who didn’t drink at all. There are also studies that show the children of mamas who drank as little as one drink a week were more aggressive and had some behavior problems. 

As with anything you consume, the alcohol passes through your organs and you have a new organ now- the placenta- which is supplying your baby with food, nutrients, vitamins and also acts as a sewer system too. Your developing baby doesn’t have the ability to process the alcohol as quickly and efficiently as you do, so the elevated alcohol level will stay there longer and be much higher than yours.

 Bottom Line-

Drinking wine when pregnant is considered taboo here in the U.S. If you do decide to go out in public and have a drink, be prepared to be refused by bartenders and get some raised eyebrows and possibly some snarky comments.

Caffeine, for the same reasons as alcohol, isn’t awesome to consume when pregnant either. Especially since it is addictive and when you breastfeed after baby is born, you won’t want to be drinking the fully leaded coffee/tea or you and baby will never sleep. Yawn.

 

3.       Can I Eat sushi while I’m pregnant?

I’m a sushi lover and was always forlorn when people reminded me I couldn’t eat sushi when pregs. I always wondered “well what do people in Japan do when they’re pregnant? Just eat rice?”

The concerns about consuming sushi when pregnant stem from high mercury levels and bacteria that can loom in uncooked fish. (see what we had to say about Listeria in our lunch meat, soft cheese break down).

The National Resource Defense Council compiled a list of the fish that’s high in mercury that you should stay away from, and the stuff that’s lower in Mercury and therefore safe for preggo consumption.

 

LOWER MERCURY- Safe for Preggo
Akagai (ark shell)
Anago (conger eel)
Aoyagi (round clam)
Awabi (abalone)
Ayu (sweetfish)
Ebi (shrimp)
Hamaguri (clam)
Hamo (pike conger; sea eel)
Hatahata (sandfish)
Himo (ark shell)
Hokkigai (surf clam) A surf clam just sound cool, eh
Hotategai (scallop)
Ika (squid)
Ikura (salmon roe)
Kaibashira (shellfish)
Kani (crab)
Karei (flatfish)
Kohada (gizzard shad) OMG, that sounds good!
Masago (smelt egg)
Masu (trout)
Mirugai (surf clam)
Sake (salmon)
Sayori (halfbeak)
Shako (mantis shrimp)
Tai (sea bream)
Tairagai (razor-shell clam)
Tako (octopus)
Tobikko (flying fish egg)- what the H is that anyways?
Torigai (cockle)
Tsubugai (shellfish)
Unagi (freshwater eel) 1
Uni (sea urchin roe)

HIGH MERCURY- Stay Away From
Ahi (yellowfin tuna)
Aji (horse mackerel)
Buri (adult yellowtail)
Hamachi (young yellowtail)
Inada (very young yellowtail) Is that like eating Bambi of the sea??
Kanpachi (very young yellowtail)
Katsuo (bonito)
Kajiki (swordfish)
Maguro (bigeye, Bluefin  or yellowfin tuna)
Makjiki (blue marlin)
Meji (young bigeye, Bluefin  or yellowfin tuna)
Saba (mackerel)
Sawara (Spanish mackerel)
Seigo (young sea bass)
Shiro (albacore tuna)
Suzuki (sea bass)
Toro (bigeye, Bluefin  or yellowfin tuna)

Bottom Line-

Most fish contains nutrients and vitamins that are good for you and your growing bundle of joy- and not all sushi is uncooked.

Itadakimasu!

4.       Can I Go running or ride a bike while pregnant?

Exercising during pregnancy is like salt n’ peppa (chocolate & peanut butter is a way better example says my husband). The two just go together. While it may feel like you have to be super careful so as not to jostle your little bean about in your womb- you do not, in fact, have to worry. Early on in your pregnancy your sweet pea is safely enclosed by the bones of your pelvis, so activities such as riding a bike or even riding horses are safe (as long as you don’t fall off) during pregnancy.

Bottom Line-

As you progress in your pregnancy and your belly grows, you’ll find that you may have to adjust your stride, or your exercise routine in general as shortness of breath is common and your center of gravity has changed. Make sure to listen to your body- if you feel tired or winded or tightness in your belly, STOP.

Otherwise, carry-on mama.

PS We chat about swimming here.

 

5.       Can I take hot baths while pregnant?

Hot baths? Yes.

Hot Tubs? Maybe not.

Physicians caution pregnant mamas about getting overheated when using hot tubs. Since most hot tubs are 104 degrees, it can only take 10 minutes to raise your core body temp to 102- which is dangerous territory for a preggo.

Why shouldn’t my body temp be over 102?  Studies show that the risk of birth defects increases when a preggo is HOT (as in temp).

Bottom Line-

If you want to relax, use your bath tub.

 

6.       Can I use antibiotics while pregnant?

The simple (and short) answer on this is to ask your health care provider. They’ll need to prescribe the drugs anyway. There are  plenty of options of antibiotics that are deemed “okay” for preggo mama and baby.

Bottom Line-

Chat with your doc and decide if you really really NEED them. Then make the call.

 

7.       Can I go on roller coasters when pregnant?

While I, personally, can’t even imagine wanting to hop on a roller coaster when pregs, there may be some thrill enthusiasts out there who are all about it ‘bout it.

I have a feeling if you ask your health care provider they will tell you a rousing “hell to the no” mama- this stems from concerns of abrupt starts and stops, and the jarring which can actually result in the placenta separating from the wall of your uterus (placental abruption) which means baby isn’t getting oxygen. Not good.

Bottom Line-

If you feel sad about missing out on roller coasters for the next 10 months or so, do not fear: pregnancy is the ultimate thrill ride. You’ll be on a roller coaster of hormones that makes the Loch Ness Monster at Busch Gardens look like child’s play. You might even barf.

 

8.       Can I change the cat litter while pregnant?

Those of you who have kitty cats, pass the kitty litter changing duty baton to your partner for the next year or so (or milk it and make it forever).

There’s a long, scientific-y word called “toxoplasmosis” involved. Toxoplasmosis is an infection caused by a parasite called Toxoplasma gondii- are you gagging yet? This parasite is found in cat poop.

Bottom Line-

If you’re the Lone Ranger on poopy-scoopy duty, the CDC recommends you wear gloves when changing the litter and make sure to wash your hands thoroughly when done.

And please, for the love, don’t handle stray cats.

 

9.    Can I take cold/sleeping meds when pregnant?

When you have your first appointment with your health care provider, you should get a list of over-the-counter meds that your Doctor/Midwife deems safe. If you haven’t found your “soul mate” yet and need some suggestions pronto, let me know, I’ll share the list I received from my health care provider.

There are over the counter and herbal remedies for all of the following:

Allergies, Headache/Sinus, Upset Stomach, Constipation, Diarrhea, Nausea, Sore Throat, Cough, Sleeplessness, Heartburn

 Bottom Line-

Consult with your health care provider to  make sure you’re getting the right stuff. Preggo friendly meds do exist. Help is on the way!

 

10. Can I dye my hair while pregnant?

The good ole U.S. Federal Government is pretty lax (actually it doesn’t regulate at all) the cosmetics and hair industry in our great country. While this is great if you’re a cosmetics company, it’s not so awesome if you’re looking for safety in your products.

The dealio with hair dyes is that they contain (gasp) chemicals. Since the skin absorbs 60% of what is put on it (your scalp is “skin”), it’s important to be aware of what you slather on your body.  The most notorious players in dyes are Ammonia- irritates skin & lungs – and PPD (p-Phenylenediamine) which is linked to immune and nervous system issues and according to Wikipedia, was voted Allergen of the Year in 2006 by the American Contact Dermatitis Society- what an honor!

If you go to a salon, see if they have PPD-free hair dye, or opt for low-lights or high-lights. If you do-it-yourself at home, look for PPD-free hair dyes, or simply the organic brands which use less chemicals overall. A great resource is the Environmental Working Group’s Skin Deep database- which rates the safety of cosmetics (including hair dyes) and is super easy to use and navigate.

Bottom Line- Whatever you put on your skin is absorbed into your blood, which becomes your baby’s blood. Because all the effects of chemicals are unknown, it’s best to minimize their use. But don’t freak mamas, as a person who started going gray in my twenties, I understand your need to not look like an aging hipster when preggo. There are safe options like Henna for coloring your hair. Or go to a health food store and go for one of their hair dye products.

 

11. Can I Use nail polish when pregnant?

This is the same thing with hair dyes.  Your nails are skin and do absorb some of what you put on them. Lots of nail polishes contain three main (sketchy) chemicals:

Phthalates- or plastic which is used to prevent chipping. Phthalates are a proven hormone disruptor and can affect reproduction.
Formaldehyde – used to harden the nails, and makes me think of dead frogs- is a cancer-causing chemical.
Toluene- helps the polish glide on easily, and is linked to nervous system disorders.

The bummer about these ingredients is that you will not know if they are in your products just by reading the labels. Instead, go to The Environmental Working Group’s Skin Deep database and look up the brand of polish you use and see what’s in it.

There are plenty of organic, vegan, green options BUT the downside is since they don’t contain all those handy-dandy cancer-causing chemicals, they aren’t always super convenient to apply or remove.

Bottom Line- same as bottom line above mama.

 

12. Can I Go tanning when pregnant?

So you’d like for your white, body to be tan- but you’re preggo? What do you do?

Well, as with the Hot Tub scenario, the heat/body temperature issue is the main concern with tanning (whether it’s in a bed, or on the beach, or nude in your back yard). The other issue is that some research has shown a link between UV Rays and folic acid deficiency (folic acid prevents neural tube defects in your baby like spina bifida).

Bottom Line-

Since it’s more difficult to regulate the temperature inside a tanning bed, than say, when you’re sitting out on the beach under an umbrella- it’s advisable to stay away from the tanning bed and go for the sunless tanner route instead.

As with everything cosmetic related- check out The Environmental Working Group’s Skin Deep database to see what safe options you have with sunless tanners.

Then pray you don’t end up orange.

 

13. Can I Paint when pregnant?

We know you have a million “to-dos” on your “please hunny, do (right now) list”.  We also know that lots of you mommies are turbo and don’t necessarily want to wait around for your spouse to get ‘er done. BUT.

When it comes to painting the baby’s nursery- or furniture- or the myriad of other painting projects— wait for hubs, or hire someone.

There are actually no research studies on the effects of household painting on the unborn baby. But, since there are chemicals involved and those float around the air for you to inhale- it’s probably best for you not to go there.

Definitely don’t attempt to remove paint from a house that may have had lead paint- and don’t sand the walls either- chemicals and solvents in the air are bad news bears for your lungs and your growing baby.

If you absolutely have to paint and don’t have friends or family you can bribe to help you- then

  1. Choose non-toxic paints.
  2. Have windows open and fans on.
  3. It wouldn’t hurt to wear a mask over your mouth and nose.
  4. Take breaks, often.
  5. Keep your food and drinks away from the stink- the last thing you need is contaminated food.

 

14. Should I Drink Green Tea while pregnant?

People always say that Green Tea is the bomb-diggity because of its antioxidants. But experts disagree about whether preggos should consume.

Here’s why:

Green tea contains caffeine- about 30% less than, say, coffee- but caffeine nonetheless.

Green tea always contains an enzyme called EGCG which interacts with another enzyme called DHFR , which deactivates the DHFR. The reason this is a problem is because it reduces the folate (the vitamin vital to good spinal health for baby).

Bottom Line-

So the moral to the story- look for decaf green tea, and a cup a day is certainly not going to be harmful.

Moderation in all things—see a theme here?

PS There’s also a helpful book called Nursing Mother’s Herbal which gives the low-down on all things herbal when you’re breastfeeding. Chock full of great info.

 

15. Can I fly on airplanes while pregnant?

If you do not have a high risk pregnancy the answer is YES. You can travel by car, bus, train, or boat too if you’d like. If you are considered “high risk”, have a chat with your healthcare provider.

While traveling (especially long distances) can get more uncomfortable as you progress in your pregnancy, there certainly isn’t anything about flying at high altitudes that will negatively impact your baby. Most airlines are jiggy when you fly up until your 8th month and then request a good ole fashioned doctors note if you’re in your 9th month.

Bottom Line-

Even though everyone will tell you that for your first kid, you will deliver after your due date, I am a perfect  example of that not being the case. My first-born son came (on his own) three weeks before his due date.  So keep that in mind mamas- if you don’t, we may see you on the news:)

 

16. Ca I get a Flu Shot when pregnant?

Many healthcare providers give mamas the old guilt trip about having the flu shot- since you are your baby’s world- you should protect yourself and your baby, etc. And the CDC (Centers for Disease Control) in 1994, made their most aggressive policy change to date- that all preggos should be vaccinated at any stage in their pregnancy. It is true that your immune system is suppressed while you’re pregnant- your body is busy doing other things like making milk, making your baby, pumping extra blood etc.

Research shows that the flu vaccine is only marginally effective at preventing the flu. Some doctors say that most of the symptoms of the “flu” aren’t actually the influenza virus, but other viruses, or bacteria. The CDC evaluates the most threatening strains each flu season and chooses 3 to vaccinate against. It’s pretty much a crap shoot as to if you get the flu, if you’ll be “lucky” enough to get one of the three you were vaccinated against.

Bottom Line-

If you do decide to get the flu shot, make sure to request a Thimerosal (Mercury) free one. Thimersol is commonly used as a preservative in immunizations. There are of course conflicting studies that Mercury has been linked to Autism.  I’ll admit, it is a bit confusing. On the one hand, during pregnancy (and even after) we are told by our doctors to be careful about how much mercury we consume in fish, right? (see sushi list above) And now we’re advised to get a flu shot which may have mercury in it?

So be sure to request a Thimerasol free one. Here’s a list to help guide you.

Also, if you opt for the vaccine, get the shot, NOT the nasal spray.  The shot has the inactivated virus in it, while the nasal spray has the live virus.


Look we’ve been making babies for thousands of years…and let’s be real, most of us are going to have a sip of alcohol or caffeine from time to time, or indulge in a bite of sushi or do other things that aren’t considered “perfect”. The point is that we don’t consistently do things on a regular basis that increase the chance for problems. Common sense also tells us the best way to deal with a problem is to avoid it, so flu shot for example…if you don’t really need one, then why mess with unnecessary stuff.

You are now armed and dangerous. You have the info and additional resources to make the right, educated decision for you but more importantly, your BABY.

Tell us what your experience with any or all of the above is below.  Did we miss anything you would like to know about?